A Husband and Wife With Servant’s Hearts And A Love For Volunteering At Camp Dream

Editor’s Note: Clete Taylor is a volunteer counselor at Camp Dream located in Warm Springs, Georgia. Each summer Clete donates his time to help disabled children experience life and joy despite their situations. Camp Dream accepts children and young adults as campers and adapts to their different disabilities and illnesses. The children always come first while their financial situations are secondary. These young people find a freedom at Camp Dream they’ve never experienced before and have amazing adventures they’ve only thought were dreams. Part 2 of a 4-part series.

Sweet, smiling faces like this one are worth it to Clete and Beverly Taylor.

Sweet, smiling faces like this one are worth it to Clete and Beverly Taylor.

Clete Taylor dated Beverly, the director of Camp Dream. Since Beverly committed to play a major role in Camp Dream, she wanted Clete to experience this major part of her life. Today Clete Taylor speaks first, followed by Beverly and her heartwarming experience.

Clete Taylor: Camp Dream started as a project to help children and young adults on the grounds of the Roosevelt Institute for Rehabilitation in Warm Springs, Georgia by a group called the Jaycees. Even at the outset of the project, everyone that was involved agreed that the camp would be barrier free meaning any child or young adult with any type of special needs would be accepted. When I married Beverly, the current director of the camp, she insisted I attend at least one session of Camp Dream, but I really did not feel the need. At that point, the camp had been in business for about 12 years. Beverly had been involved in fundraisers for the camp, went from counselor to director. She’s been the camp director at Camp Dream for eight years now. When I finally went to the camp and met my camper, Michael, I knew within 15 minutes that I’d be involved with Camp Dream for the rest of my life. I fell in love with the kids and the mission and was excited to see where this journey would lead me.

A Life’s Mission with Beverly Taylor: My sister found out about the idea of helping children with special needs at Camp Dream and immediately told me, “Beverly, this isn’t for me, but it’s just right for you.” She knows I have a servant’s heart and love to help others, so she invited me to join this group in 1986. I loved the program. At my first meeting I saw this big banner, and everyone jumped and chanted, “Camp Dream, Camp Dream.” I was blown away by the enthusiasm of the group. When I asked, “What is Camp Dream?” someone explained to me, “Camp Dream is a project that the Jaycees have undertaken to provide a summer camp program for special needs kids who can’t attend a regular summer camp. These children either have disabilities that other camps cannot cater to or have financial issues. There would be so many children who would never have a fun and valuable summer camp experience unless we raise the money and volunteer to help at the camp.” 

Camp Dream provides children and young adults with valuable experiences, friendships and more!

Camp Dream provides special needs children and young adults with valuable experiences, friendships and more!

When I learned about the mission at Camp Dream, I said, “I’ll raise money.” I loved children, and I felt that Camp Dream was a way to help these children. The Jaycees are a leadership organization that trains members to be leaders in the community. Camp Dream was the perfect opportunity for the Jaycees to complete their mission for service to the community. The Georgia Jayceetes, the female version of the Jaycees, had discussed the idea of Camp Dream with the men.  Before the two organizations became one, the men began raising money. The Jayceetes recruited the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers to build the lake at Camp Dream for no cost. The Roosevelt Institute for Rehabilitation had the property where the camp could be built, and they were also associated with some major foundations that could help with the funding of the project.

Today we have two cabins with 44 beds. Since we have one counselor for each special needs child, we can take 22 kids and 22 counselors at a time. When I went to the camp as a counselor, my first camper was a boy named Michael who had cerebral palsy and could barely talk. I fell in love with him after the first hour of meeting him. After working with Michael through that first session of camp, I swore to myself that there never would be another camp held in which I wasn’t involved. My passion for helping these young people grew stronger. For the first two years, I was a counselor. I accepted more responsibility and became a member of the staff. The counselor and staff positions are not paid—this is strictly volunteer work. I worked as a staff member for a few years before I was promoted to assistant director. Shortly thereafter, I became the director of Camp Dream.

Beverly Taylor loves all of her campers-- how could you not love a sweet face like this one!?

Beverly Taylor loves all of her campers-- how could you not love a sweet face like this one!?

In 2010, we only held one session of camp, because that was all the funding we had, and we hosted 50 special needs children. The year 2010 was a heartbreak for me, since we had 38 more children who wanted to come. Having to turn those young people away absolutely broke my heart. It is not right to turn children away. I went to the board and declared, “This should never happen again.” In 2011, we had three sessions and were able to provide the camp experience for 111 kids. A camp session is Thursday morning until Sunday, a three and a half day camp. Our volunteers include Jaycees, nursing students and college students.

Camp Dream's young, enthusiastic counselors are wonderful with the special needs campers!

Camp Dream's young, enthusiastic counselors are wonderful with the special needs campers! I'm sure this young man made a strike after this photo!

To learn more about Camp Dream, and see the amazing work of the volunteers who serve a higher purpose, please click here

Next: Lots of Crying, Tons of Laughter and a Big Dance with Beverly Taylor of Camp Dream

About the Author: For the last 12 years, John E. Phillips of Vestavia, Alabama, has been a professional blogger for major companies, corporations and tourism associations throughout the nation. During his 24 years as Outdoor Editor for “The Birmingham Post-Herald” newspaper, he published more than 7,000 newspaper columns and sold more than 100,000 of his photos to newspapers, magazines and internet sites. He also hosted a radio show that was syndicated at 27 radio stations; created, wrote and sold a syndicated newspaper column that ran in 38 newspapers for more than a decade; and wrote and sold more than 30 books. Learn more at http://www.nighthawkpublications.com

National Tennis Champion David Williams Talks About The Important Stuff: Girls & Dating

Editor’s Note: Every great champion has a mountain to climb, and the steeper and the higher the mountain, the more mental and physical strength required to reach the top. David Williams of Atlanta, Georgia, national champion in the A Divisionwheelchair division – of the United States Tennis Association, talks today about something more challenging than winning a national title: Dating.  Part 2 of a four-part series.

David Williams is a champion on and off the tennis court.

David Williams is a champion on and off the tennis court.

Question: David, tell us about this defining moment (see Day 1) when you knew that you’d probably never walk again.

Williams: When I went back to high school, I had crutches at first. I was 14 years old, and I had been very involved in sports, mainly basketball. All the guys I played basketball with and competed against in junior high were now playing basketball at the high school. After nearly a year, I still believed that one day I’d play basketball again. I was sitting at the bottom of the stairs at the gym watching my friends practice, and at that moment I realized I’d never play basketball again.

That was a very-difficult time in my life. From that moment, I spent about 4 years trying to heal from that disappointment. Most people didn’t know that I was dealing with this, because I kept smiling and telling everyone I was fine, while inside I was dealing with the fact that I’d never play basketball, walk or run again. That was really tough. I just couldn’t get my mind wrapped around that idea. I went through a four-year period of depression and anxiety, because I didn’t know what my future held.

After his paralysis, David learned about the power of positivity from his supportive family. Now, he's passing it on to his son, Eli.

After his paralysis, David learned about the power of positivity from his supportive family. Now, he's passing it on to his son, Eli.

Question: How were you able to hang-on through that 4-year depression?

Williams: I had an amazing, faith-based family who always kept me pointed in the right direction and always made me feel loved. They demonstrated their love by making me go to wheelchair basketball and wheelchair tennis practice. They also introduced me to other new activities. They would tell me, “Okay, so you can’t do some of the things that you used to do, the same way you used to do them, but there are other ways to do these things.”

David takes the court wearing his favorite red shorts at a recent exhibition match benefitting Multiple Sclerosis.

David takes the court wearing his favorite red shorts at a recent exhibition match benefitting Multiple Sclerosis.

My family was very pro-active about my getting back into living life. I didn’t want to play wheelchair tennis. I had absolutely no interest in it. My mom made me play. She said, “If you don’t like it, fine, but you’re going to try to play it.” I ended-up falling in love with tennis.

Since then, tennis has been a major driving force in my life, even now. Even 27 years after my mom made me try wheelchair tennis, the sport is still positively impacting my life. I’m very grateful that my mom made me learn the game. My family forced me out of my depression, although helping me do that took 4 years.

One thing that also helped me was I had a tremendous amount of confidence before my illness, because of sports and my relationships with girls (all the things that are important to a 14-year old). As I went through my depression, I noticed that some of the girls were taking an interest in me, and I started having success in wheelchair sports. I also found that many people became interested in my prowess as an athlete. My self-confidence began to slowly return.

Question: When did you know that you had beat your depression?

Williams: I don’t think there was ever a defining moment when I said, “Wow! I’m not depressed anymore.” I just slowly crept out of that deep, dark hole and finally began to believe that everything would be okay with my life. Through sports and social interaction with others, I came to believe that my life and my future would be fine.

Question: How did you find out that girls liked you, even though you were in a wheelchair?

David and Emily Williams

David and Emily Williams

Williams: When I went out with a group of friends, I’d see an occasional interest from some of the girls in the group. But I was so gun-shy and short on confidence that the only way I ever really knew that anyone was interested in me was if someone came up and told me. I just assumed that because I was in a wheelchair, no girl would ever be interested in me.

Now I count my disability as a blessing. I’m really glad that I met my wife when I was already in a wheelchair and not when I was able-bodied and had something happen to put me in a wheelchair. I knew when I met my wife that there would be no surprises. She knew exactly what she was getting into, and she accepted me for who I was. That was what I began to see in high school. Girls accepted me for who I was and not as a guy in a wheelchair.

Question: When did your dating life change?

Williams: I was about 21 years old before I started dating a lot and with confidence. I only went on one date when I was in high school. If a girl I thought was mildly attractive started to talk to me in high school, I’d turn purple with embarrassment. I had a severe lack of confidence, and when you mix that with severe depression, functioning socially is hard. I just couldn’t believe a girl would be interested in a guy in a wheelchair.

Question: What happened at age 21 to make you believe that a girl could be interested in you as you were?

Williams: There were several factors. I was teaching able-bodied tennis players how to play better, I was winning tennis tournaments, I was more comfortable in group settings, and I realized that people were truly interested in what I was doing. So, why should this be different in a one-on-one dating setting?

I had to mature and grow personally before I could mature and grow socially. I finally realized that I was in a wheelchair, and whether I wanted to be or not didn’t matter. That’s where I was. I was still David Williams, and I would always be myself. I wasn’t going to let the chair dictate who I was. Yes, it was a part of me, but it wasn’t me. The chair was only a mode of transportation. It would certainly change me forever, but I wouldn’t let it define me.

The entire Williams family took Disney World by storm this summer.

The entire Williams family took Disney World by storm this summer.

David Williams’ story has a special place in our heart because David has been part of the UroMed family for more than 10 years. He currently works with clinicians and patients across the Southeast as a Territory Representative for UroMed.  David also volunteers as a peer counselor for UroMed’s non-profit program: Life After Spinal Cord Injury.

David was also recently featured in an article by Inside Healthcare magazine. See the story here.

Next: National Champion David Williams Didn’t Intend to Be a Tennis Player

About the Author: For the last 12 years, John E. Phillips of Vestavia, Alabama, has been a professional blogger for major companies, corporations and tourism associations throughout the nation. During his 24 years as Outdoor Editor for “The Birmingham Post-Herald” newspaper, he published more than 7,000 newspaper columns and sold more than 100,000 of his photos to newspapers, magazines and internet sites. He also hosted a radio show that was syndicated at 27 radio stations; created, wrote and sold a syndicated newspaper column that ran in 38 newspapers for more than a decade; and wrote and sold more than 30 books. Learn more at http://www.nighthawkpublications.com

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